Others Make You Respect

Others make you Respect
Do you feel ignored, should not be treated with other people or do not listen to you, especially your opinion? Do not worry, you're not alone. You also need not feel afraid because there are specific ways to overcome it.

How to make people respect you?

All come from themselves.
Feelings in themselves will determine the way people behave towards us. When you get the award, it usually also appear in your attitude to other people.
Feeling we actually 'made' by themselves. There is not one that can make you feel mad / nervous, feel guilty or embarrassed. If you have a certain feeling, it's because you keep the feeling in yourself. Each person will also differ in yourself. There are people that only with the eyes can make us feel warm and comfortable with him. While there are people who can make us feel nervous and tense. In fact, certain people can cause feelings of anger and wrath. You have the right to get the environment that includes the people who make you feel comfortable. You should not give up and so therefore the victim. If you can understand this, then you can control your feelings easily.

Surely you can do something on the feeling-the feeling is. But first you must do is recognize that feelings of low self comes to you from within yourself. If you can understand, then you also know that you have the option to receive the opinion of others about you, or reject it altogether.

If the boss, teacher, or others who may have a position of authority over you say that your work is not wrong then you certainly feel resentful because of the criticism has the power to give a higher than you. Conversely, if the criticism is to give the stranger that you do not know the person while intoxicated, dressed in a disordered, and behave, and speak like a child, then the criticism he will not affect you. Why? This is happening because the criticism comes from people that you do not know. You need to remember that you are entitled to choose in which you select which is to be received and which you will ignore. Because these options will determine whether you will appreciate, or even humiliate yourself. Remember ... options that you have on.

A theory that has been said is correct if you want to be valued then they must be trained to treat you like you be on the teeth on them. When people see that you always be respectful, then other people will do the same to you.

Theory Seems
Do not worry if in the hearts of you still can not respect yourself, then you can still apply this theory to work. You can change your negative views. It's a way that looks simple, but really quite difficult to do, you can learn self-esteem with the "connivance" self-esteem. For example, if you behave as though you have the confidence that strong, it can be ascertained that in the short time you will get the confidence is. Or, if you behave as though you are skilled to do something, then you will soon be the same as you do.

When you behave "as if" you have to be that person who you want, the attitude is starting to grow in yourself. Your attitude everyday, whether in thought, word and action reflects the level of self. If the thought, word and action is based on your self-respect then you will be able to appreciate the people themselves and other people also appreciate also your. You can do 'theory seems to' go with the "rules" about what must be disclosed, has been done, and believed. Note the "rules" and try it.

That should be disclosed:
1. Proud of the achievement of results when you have completed successfully. Do not be considered as a mere luck. All that happens because your hard work.

2. Say "thank you" the people who praise you without having to feel ashamed.

3. Say your feelings, for example, you must dare to say "I love you" to the people who you love.

4. You recognize the error, if you make a mistake. Make mistakes is human. All people ever do. However, only those who respect themselves and who want to know how best to acknowledge the mistake. All you do is acknowledge with a sense of responsibility, taking lessons from the mistakes you made, and try to improve.

5. When sesdapat against someone threatening you with the words, then you can melawannya with the word also. You do not need to shout.

6. Do not insult other people. Someone who respects himself never humiliate people in Agra on the other.

What should be done:
1. Walking with full confidence. Lift your head, make sure you walk the right way.

2. With neatly dressed, "as if" you consider your body. Note the cleanliness and hygiene yourself.

3. Try something new every sunday, the magazine's latest issue, a new food, new event that can be called or a new acquaintance that you can get talked.

4. Follow your heart desires your hearts desire. Think about something that you want others to do for you, and do their own for themselves. For example buy nosegay, to travel, keep the pet.

Which must be believed:
a. Believe that your personal views of the self is more important than what others are saying about you.

b. That alone does not mean lonely. Feeling lonely basically come from within yourself. Whether you live alone you can not feel lonely, while many people feel very lonely, even though they are in a noisy environment.

c. You are sure is that people respect and self-worth. Whether or not there are people who love you.

d. Recognizing that the past is fixed in time. No matter how other people or you understand. You will not be able to change them.

e. Sure that your valuable because you are you, not other people. Price yourself as something personal.

Now, you can build your life and change the day-to-day. There is never a word too late to become a person who can appreciate themselves.